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My Classmate died of MRSA

The 1967 graduating High School Class of Stearns High School, Millinocket, ME  was a very close bunch.  Like all young people, we  each moved on with our lives. Most of us moved “away”, but part of our hearts stayed in Millinocket.  We sometimes lost touch, but a lot of us tried to go to the reunions as often as possible.  I saw my friend Mike Simone just a couple of years ago for the first time in years.  It was like those interim  years never happened. He was such a sweet guy and he loved his hometown and classmates.   We talked about life, his diabetes and old friends.

It was with great sadness I read my classmate’s obituary today.  I just visited with him a little over a month ago.  I was contacted and told by a co- classmate that Mike had MRSA.  This was not good news.  Mike was a big man with a big heart and he had problems with diabetes.  He was considered “high risk” for infections, although it is my belief that infections can be prevented for ALL patients in Hospitals.  It is their job!

Mike had a cardiac valve replacement done last fall. His preoperative MRSA screening test was negative.  He had the heart surgery because he needed a knee replacement and the heart  problem  was fixed to prepare and bolster  him for the second surgery. He told me he never felt right after the heart surgery.   Then several weeks later, when he took off his shoe and sock, there was a tremendous odor. He hadn’t felt pain because he had neuropathy and decreased sensation in his feet.   He  found pus in his sock.  His toe was infected with MRSA.  He was seen by his local doc and Hospital and then transferred to EMMC here in Bangor for further treatment.  He had to get his toe amputated, and the pervasive MRSA infection was also in his blood and in his heart….his newly repaired heart.  This was very serious business for Mike.  His appetite disappeared, he was unable to get out of bed and his strength was gone. The damage to Mike’s body caused by MRSA, and the high powered antibiotics needed to treat it  was much worse than what years of diabetes had done to him.   His treatment at EMMC lasted a few weeks and then he was told “there is nothing more we can do”.  According to his wife Carolyn, his liver and kidneys had begun to fail.  I advised them that perhaps the Joslin Clinic, with their cutting edge diabetes interventions, could help.  Mike just wanted to go home.  He missed his family and  his lifelong community of friends.  His wife said that he already had his finger on the pulse of all ‘goings on’ at his hometown hospital just a day after his transfer back ‘home’.  He saw everyone who roamed the Hospital halls and talked to a lot of them.   He was where he wanted to be. 

I visited Mike just a little over a month ago in our hometown hospital.  I carefully washed my hands and donned gloves and sat with him. We talked again.    His once large arms were skinny and  had wrinkled  sagging skin on them.He couldn’t get out of bed and he was very weak.  He had become a shadow of the Mike I knew.  But,   he was comfortable, and content and glad to be home.  When I asked if there was anything I could do for him, he said  “I don’t think there is much anyone can do for me”.   He had accepted what was coming.  The following was in this morning’s newspaper.

Michael J. Simone, 67, passed away May 13, 2012. A complete obituary will be published in a later edition of the Bangor Daily News. Arrangements are by Lamson Funeral Home, Millinocket. Messages of condolence may be expressed at www.lamsonfh.com.

Published in BDN Maine on May 15, 2012

Mike died on Mother’s Day, May 13.   I am so saddened by this news and for his family.  He died in the same Hospital where my father contracted MRSA.  Today, I grieve Michael Simone and my father, both victims of preventable Healthcare Associated MRSA infections.

My renewed passion to STOP THE INFECTIONS NOW has pulled me back to my blog and other places where I will share Mikes story (with both his permission and his wife’s).  I became part of a 10 member panel to help determine the gaps in MRSA Screening Research.  I will tell about Mike and Dad to the  other 9 members, all with impressive MD resumes and who manage insurance companies, influence  CDC recommendations and teach at medical schools.   I will share these tragedies anywhere, and with whomever I think  can make a difference.  At the end of the month,  I will attend a national conference on the reporting and data of these infections.   Mike’s  infection and my father’s will not be buried  in data. They will be reported in person.

When I visited Mike, I told him that I was sorry this was happening to him.  My heartfelt apology was on my behalf and that of others who really care about stopping infections.   We hadn’t done enough yet to prevent Mike’s infection…it’s time to stop metering out prevention in fits and spurts.  We need to go “ full court press”  to eliminate HAIs.

Addendum.  A few days ago, I spoke with Mike’s widow Carolyn.  She is doing well and taking stock of Mike’s life and healthcare journey.  Like most of us who have had similar experinces,  she is still seeking answers about Mike’s debacle.  She believes that patients are not warned enough about the possibilities of MRSA when they are asked to give consent for the surgery.  She also had great concerns about the lack of education for the patient and their families and visitors about MRSA.  She made a plea to me to get the word out on these concerns.  I made a promise to Carolyn that I would do my best, and spread the word on her requests and concerns.

  1. Mrs Mikkelsen
    June 1st, 2012 at 08:23 | #1

    Thanks for your work regarding MRSA. I lost my son (26 years old) to an aggressive MRSA pneumonia almost 1.5 years ago. He has been travelling to the Philippines a month before his death and the MRSA bacteria’s must have colonized in his lungs. He was in the hospital the day before with fever. He died within 24 hours. We received the diagnose 3 month after his death. It is so wrong that a young healthy man can die from this infection without being mentioned anywhere – and I ask myselves – Could anything be done to prevent this tragedy and more to come? Did anyone learn anything? When I read about MRSA concerns it’s mainly the traditional infection ways (pigs/hospitals). My hope is that someone remember to look for ways the prevent MRSA infection when travelling to Philippines and other foreign countries.

  2. Kathy
    June 3rd, 2012 at 08:10 | #2

    Dear Mrs Mikkelsen,
    I am so sorry to hear about your son. The loss of a child is the most painful of all. MRSA is an incredibly deadly and pervasive communicable infection/disease. I am always so sad to hear that yet another family has been saddened by the loss of a loved one because of MRSA. As long as I am able, I will continue to bring your voice and that of so many others who suffered that loss to the forefront of the discussions about MRSA and other healthcare associated infections.

  3. Ruth
    March 17th, 2013 at 02:45 | #3

    I was not told I had MRSA, I was treated at a hospital in Cincinnati Ohio after stepping on some type of needle on my job. I had surgery in Dec 2012 and a bone was removed from my foot. I found out I have to have my toe amputated because the infection
    is still there. Please let people know the smallest break in your skin can take your life or you can have parts of your body removed

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